Growing Up Quickly
“At a young age, I had to endure things that other kids didn’t,” says Tiffin University senior Briana Streib. Briana was born while her parents were still in high school—at which time her father immediately joined the Army and her mother dabbled in drugs. It was up to Briana to choose a different path.
“My mom worked two, sometimes three, jobs to support my half sister and me,” says Briana. “It wasn’t enough, and we often went on food stamps.” Beginning at the age of 10, Briana entered the workforce. She delivered newspapers to local neighborhoods before getting a work permit to work at McDonald’s. She had to earn extra money to pay for clothes, food, sports activities and essentials.
Briana stretched herself thin as a full-time student, athlete and employee. She was barely home, trying to distance herself from her feelings of uncertainty and neglect. Although her home life was unstable, work and school provided her a sense of security. “We moved around a lot,” says Briana. “It was hard for me to know whether I could call a place home. I wasn’t sure how long I would be living there.” Briana bounced house to house between shared parenting with her grandparents and mother. Eventually, her mother married, and their family of three grew to a family of seven.
Briana’s instability forced her to grow up quickly. She knew it was time to take her responsibilities a step further. “When I turned 16, I started the process to become emancipated,” she says. “I had a bad relationship with my mom growing up. She had an addiction, and I didn’t want to fall into the same path. I had a clear future for myself.” The process of emancipation wasn’t easy. It took nearly two years.
During the emancipation process, her living conditions worsened. “During my junior year of high school, we got kicked out for not paying our bills,” says Briana. “We then moved into a mobile home that was not in great condition. I found myself counting down the days until I could move into a college dorm.”
A few months later, Briana’s mom and stepdad separated. Rather than following them, she stayed in the mobile home. “It was a wake-up call,” she says. Briana had to pay bills on time and get groceries by herself. Many teenagers don’t have to do those things, which gave Briana a sense of independence. But independence and responsibility always come at a price. Briana had plans to attend college and began to worry about how she would afford the cost.
“I had to apply for every scholarship possible to pay for college,” says Briana. “Winning numerous scholarships paid for my first two years of college, debt-free. I was able to quit my job for the first time and focus on my education and athletic ability in track. I wanted a degree to support myself and my future family.”
Earning scholarships from Tiffin University was Briana’s first real support system. “Those who donate to the scholarship fund support students and their future,” she says. “I’m beyond thankful for everything I have received.”
Attending Tiffin University was one of the best decisions Briana says she has made. Tiffin University became Briana’s home and provided her a second family. “Everyone at TU is supportive,” she says. Her professors helped her with coursework and offered emotional support, especially when family problems arose. “My Dragon family is everything,” Briana says. “Tiffin University will always be my home.”
“One of the biggest life lessons I can take away is that your past doesn’t control your future,” says Briana. “Where you come from doesn’t decide where you’re going. You can always do better and set yourself up for greatness. Although life can be challenging, it doesn’t mean it’s bad. You can rise up, learn and grow. The bad always turns into good.”
Briana will graduate in December 2020 with a bachelor’s degree in human resources. She currently works for the North End Community Improvement Collaborative, Inc. (NECIC) and has accepted a full-time position at Harmony House as an HR administrator. She plans to get married in February 2021.
To learn more about how you can leave a lasting legacy and ultimately impact the lives of students like Briana with a planned gift, contact Mitchell P. Blonde, CFRE at 419.448.3584 or blondemp@tiffin.edu.